For founders and execs who want to keep growing without success costing them personally
A focused four-week engagement built around the one challenge that matters most right now
The process
Before we start
You complete The Mirror. I do the prep.
The Mirror looks at the challenge from every angle: what's happening, what you want instead, where it shows up in your life, what happens under pressure, and what it’s all costing you.
I review it before we meet, so our private time isn’t spent getting me up to speed.
It also gives us a clear picture of where you are before anything changes.
We do the work
Your first session works directly with the subconscious programming underneath the challenge.
The work is content-free. I’m not telling your subconscious what it should believe, what it needs to release or who you should become.
My job is to guide and facilitate the process, pay attention to how you are responding and deliver exactly what you need in the moment.
This is a deep and enjoyable process.
You get on with your life
We give the work room to move.
There’s no course to complete, daily routine to maintain or pile of homework waiting for you.
A few days later, you complete a short reflection on what you or others have noticed.
It could be a decision that doesn't need the usual back-and-forth. A different reaction. Something feels lighter. Something no longer has the same grip. Or something new has presented itself.
We go where the change takes us
Your next session is guided by where you are now.
Oftentimes, the main issue you arrived with has moved significantly. Sometimes changing one pattern makes something else easier to see. Sometimes something new emerges that neither of us could have known was relevant at the start.
We work with what is there now to amplify the changes of the first session and integrate what came up as a result of it.
A second short reflection afterwards captures what else has changed or become clearer.
I close the loop
At the end of the four weeks, you complete a final Reflection. I bring that together with your Mirror from the start, what changed after each session, your reflections and what has happened in real life.
This gives you a clear before-and-after picture of how far you have moved. Because once something gets easier, we quickly adapt and forget how difficult it used to be.
Seeing the change in full helps anchor what is now different, what has become possible and where you can go next.
I then build your personalised 90-day plan around where you are now, selecting the B-MÓR tools, audios and protocols that will help you keep moving and adjust independently when new challenges appear.
Support throughout
This is a four-week private engagement, not two isolated appointments.
I stay close to what is happening across the four weeks, so if something important surfaces, it can feed directly back into the work.
Where a particular B-MÓR audio, reset or tool would be useful, I’ll give it to you at the point it is useful.
Who this is for
You’ve built something significant and you don’t want the next level to cost more of your life.
There’s a particular challenge, response or way of operating that has become too cumbersome to keep carrying.
You don’t need more strategy, information or someone explaining your life back to you. You want to work with what’s underneath the problem.
You want depth without turning the challenge into another long-term project.
You may have done coaching, therapy, personal development or performance work before. Some of it may have helped. But something still remains, even though you can understand, manage or work around it.
You are looking for business strategy, productivity systems, accountability or ongoing coaching.
You want to spend more time analysing the problem rather than changing your response to it.
You're in acute crisis and need clinical support first.
Investment
One Payment
$5000
One payment for the full four-week private engagement.
That includes the preparation before we begin, the private work itself, reflections and support across the four weeks, any B-MÓR tools or audios I select for you, and my final review and 90-day roadmap.
I only take 4 private clients at any one time, so I can give each engagement the attention it needs.
What happens next
We talk first.
I listen to what’s happening, what it is costing you and what you have already tried.
Then I’ll tell you if I think this is for you.
If you want to go ahead, we agree the start date, and I send you a payment link.
I then send you The Mirror after you complete the payment.
A few useful details
I don’t tell your subconscious what the answer should be or prescribe what it needs to change. I’m not giving it suggestions such as “you will become confident” or “you will stop worrying”.
The process leaves the answer open, allowing your subconscious to decide what it is ready to let go of and what needs to take its place.
Yes. You remain aware throughout and able to respond.
I guide the process and adjust the pace around how you are responding rather than forcing everyone through it at exactly the same speed.
I stay close to what is happening throughout the engagement so anything relevant that surfaces can feed back into the work.
I may also give you particular B-MÓR audios, tools or protocols where they are useful. You are not handed a content library to work through.
You complete a final Reflection and I review the work across the whole four weeks.
You leave with a clear picture of what changed and a personal 90-day roadmap drawing on the B-MÓR tools and protocols relevant to where you are now.
Both use the B-MÓR Method.
Stop Getting In Your Own Way is a defined group programme focused on the Bodyguard tactics that keep getting between you and something you consciously want.
Wired for Success is a private four-week engagement built around the challenge that matters most right now. The discovery goes deeper, the live work is paced and facilitated around you, and what happens next responds to what changes rather than following a fixed group timetable.
If Stop Getting In Your Own Way is enough for what you need, I’ll tell you.
Yes, if it is something you are already participating in.
You do need to be able to commit to the full Wired for Success process before we begin, so don’t start anything new during the four weeks that could overload or confuse the work.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like protecting people.
"It's easier if I do it."
"They've already got enough on."
What it costs you
You run yourself into the ground. The people around you feel sidelined and resent sacrifices they never asked for. And you're left alone with the responsibility.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like protecting the result, reputation and high standards.
"I need to stay on top of this."
"I'm just making sure it's done properly."
What it costs you
People stop bringing you their best because they expect to be overruled. You become the bottleneck and the business learns to wait for your say. The best ones don’t keep fighting you - they leave.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like staying hungry, respecting the journey and never taking success for granted.
"I can't ease up yet."
"I'll show I can do it again."
What it costs you
You become trapped inside the life your success was supposed to free you from. Stepping away feels like losing your identity. So the year you ease off is always next year.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like ambition, momentum and refusing to waste your potential.
"I'm just ambitious."
"There's still more I could be doing."
What it costs you
Your family gets you in the room, but your mind is already on the next move. One day you realise they've stopped inviting you into the moments you kept missing.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like excellence, and refusing to let standards slip.
"That's just the way I do it."
"Done isn't good enough."
What it costs you
Your standards consume your time and energy, and keep the business dependent on you. Your team and family live around expectations they can never satisfy. Neither can you.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like diplomacy.
"It's not worth the friction."
"I'd rather keep the relationship."
What it costs you
You compromise too much. Everyone else gets what they need, while you become resentful, emotionally drained and trapped in a life built around them. What looks like success from the outside feels toxic inside.
How it sounds sensible
It sounds like staying realistic, keeping your feet on the ground and refusing to become complacent.
"I'm not going to get carried away."
"Someone has to keep the standard."
Wired for Success